Trista Sutter and Ryan Sutter are ready to nip any breakup rumors in the bud.
After spending 21 years together, the original Bachelorette and her chosen one are making it evident that their story won’t end up as the most sensational breakup in Bachelor history.
Instead, they continue to thrive and reside in Denver, Colorado, along with their son Maxwell, who is 17 years old, and their daughter Blakesley, aged 15. Contrary to popular belief about the success rate of relationships from this particular franchise, Trista maintains that there’s no special secret behind their happy union. She simply states, “There really isn’t a secret.
In a recent conversation with Will Marfuggi from TopMob News, she emphasized a familiar message. The advice that’s always shared in relationships is what she highlighted: It’s about open communication, building trust, showing respect, sharing common values, and finding compatibility – essentially, all the essential elements.
Eight months ago, I found myself pondering if Trista and Ryan were navigating through some challenging times. The doubts began in May when the firefighter posted a message expressing his longing to reach out to the author of “Happily Ever After” and check on her well-being.
There was much speculation among people about her mental state, marital issues, and possible separation. It was quite chaotic,” Trista mentioned. “However, it gave me a warm feeling, knowing that they still show concern.
Indeed, her followers were deeply concerned about the breakup rumors surrounding her and Ryan. They even had to address these speculations in subsequent social media updates, emphasizing that their relationship was thriving. However, it wasn’t until November that it was revealed why Trista had been absent: She was busy filming season three of FOX’s “Special Forces: World’s Toughest Test”.
The reality star stated, “Although we don’t have millions of followers, our following is exceptional. It was quite moving to see such excitement over Ryan’s cryptic posts and various events – it felt humbling and heartwarming.” And when reviewing it later, everything becomes clear.
It’s understandable that fans have become deeply involved since they’ve been supporting this couple since early 2002. That was when Trista, known as the first Bachelorette from the premiere season of The Bachelor, distributed roses and Ryan proposed to her. Their wedding was even televised the following year.
21 years ago, on Dec. 6, 2003, I wouldn’t have thought my happiness could be greater,” Trista reminisced in an Instagram anniversary tribute in December. “Reflecting back on that extraordinarily memorable day, I realize that I was indeed incredibly joyful – the happiest I had ever been. However, with a life filled with children and pets, ups and downs, love, and endless laughter over the years, I’ve discovered a different kind of happiness. It’s a genuine, lasting, faithful happiness where I feel understood, recognized, and profoundly loved. I value them both. I value you, @ryansutter.
After the television event, Trista and Ryan consistently invited fans into their lives by offering a date card, keeping everyone updated on her dance competition on “Dancing With the Stars,” their joint appearances on a vow renewal special called “Marriage Bootcamp: Reality Stars,” and various episodes of “The Bachelor.” Their actions truly embodied what it means to stand by each other through thick and thin. For instance, Trista experienced a seizure during a family vacation in Croatia in 2017, and Ryan revealed his Lyme disease diagnosis in 2021.
Trista shared with TopMob in January that the 50-year-old is approximately 80% recovered. She explained that dealing with Lyme disease can be difficult because not everyone responds similarly to treatments. Each person’s journey is unique, and he has tried various methods to get to his current state.
As a devoted admirer, I’d express it like this: “Though Trista concedes that point was ‘pretty good,’ she also understands that on any given day, even the exceptional Ryan might stumble for some unexplained reason.
The 52-year-old clarified, “I’m not sure if he’s merely unwell or if it’s Lyme disease causing his exhaustion. Despite this, he’s doing much better than he was a couple of years back. At that time, he was really ill.
Regarding the future, Trista and Ryan are gearing up for life as empty nesters when their children graduate from high school. As for how Maxwell and Blakesley feel about their parents’ fame on reality TV, according to their mother, they have grown quite indifferent to it.
She commented that our children would chuckle if someone requested a photo or anything similar,” she mentioned. “After all, we got to know each other through television. In a peculiar manner, they seem proud of it, but they don’t make a big deal about it, like shouting from the rooftops, ‘My parents met on TV!'”
Being one of the few Bachelor couples still thriving in their relationship might bring pressure for some, but Trista doesn’t perceive it that way.
She shared with TopMob in 2023 that she puts self-imposed pressure on her relationship due to a personal ambition: “I aspire to have a marriage lasting as long as my grandparents’ did – 72 years. I cherish him, our shared journey, and the fact that he is my best friend. This desire for continuity creates an internal pressure rather than any external pressure from others.”
For further insights into the romantic lives of other stars from the franchise, stay tuned.
Status: In a Relationship
After participating in the inaugural season of “The Golden Bachelor” and leaving Gerry Turner’s season prematurely, Joan Vassos then took on the role of the leading lady in the first season of “The Golden Bachelorette”. It was during this stint that she found love with contestant Chock Chapple. She expressed their heartwarming sentiment during the November 2024 finale of “The Golden Bachelorette”, saying, “We are living proof that no matter what life throws at us, there is still hope, even at our age.” In a romantic setting in Bora Bora, Chock later proposed by declaring, “I waited ’til this moment in this amazing location to tell you that I love you, and I want to spend the rest of my life with you. I want to wake up next to you in the morning, and I want to kiss you when I go to bed at night.
Status: Split
In the season finale of The Bachelorette (season 21), it appeared that former Bachelor contestant Jenn Tran might have found her perfect match in Devin Strader. However, Jenn, aged 26, disclosed during After the Final Rose (in September) that Devin, aged 28, abruptly distanced himself from her once the cameras stopped rolling.
During the September 3rd show, Jenn explained to host Jesse Palmer that the man she was involved with would express intense declarations of affection one day, only to be completely indifferent the next and deny any feelings of love. She stated that all the assurances and affection he had promised her seemed to vanish suddenly.
The events unfolded further as Devin posted a 13-minute video on Instagram, detailing his perspective and accepting responsibility (taking accountability), while also explaining the reasons behind ending their conversation over a 15-minute phone call.
Instead of claiming Jenn ended their relationship over the phone in August, he mentioned that she had asked about his troubles and wanted him to tell her in person before he eventually broke the news.
He admitted that he was unsure about other actions, but put it into perspective by mentioning that he had been planning to share the news with her face-to-face. In simpler terms, he implied she made him take action sooner than planned.
After that, Jenn made her way towards Dancing with the Stars, and it appears she might have also found a place in Sasha Farber’s heart. They have been generating romance speculation ever since their elimination on October 29th.
Status: Split
Last November 2022, Greg Grippo, one of Katie Thurston’s past suitors on “The Bachelorette,” appeared alongside Victoria Fuller on the season finale of “Bachelor in Paradise.” During their time there, they disclosed that they were in a relationship. However, by April 2024, he shared that their relationship had ended.
Prior to Victoria Fuller and Greg Grippo revealing their relationship during the finale of “Bachelor in Paradise” Season 8, Victoria Fuller and Johnny DePhillipo had previously broken off their engagement.
Status: Divorced
Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist became engaged in November 2023, during the final episode of the first season of “Golden Bachelor,” and they got married in a live television wedding in January 2024.
However, three months after their nuptials, the couple announced that they were breaking up.
Gerry stated during their Good Morning America appearance with Theresa in April 2024, ‘Theresa and I have had numerous deep conversations, carefully examined our circumstances, including our living arrangements, among other things. We’ve reached a mutual agreement that it seems appropriate for us to end our marriage.’
They reached a divorce settlement in June 2024, according to court records reviewed by TopMob News.
Relationship Status: Betrothed
Tennis professional Joey Graziadei, after pursuing 32 possible partners, found his ideal mate in project manager Kelsey Anderson. Overwhelmed with anticipation, he expressed his love to his final choice during the season finale in March 2024. “I can’t delay any longer to tell you that I adore you,” Joey confessed, before dropping to one knee. “There is something unique about you. You possess an infectious enthusiasm that brings joy. It’s a sensation I have never experienced before.”
Picture his future with the Louisiana native, he added, “I have understood for some time that I wanted a lovely life, but I truly didn’t know how wonderful that life could be until I encountered you.
As a lifestyle expert, I’d rephrase it like this:
Though underwater welder John Henry Spurlock and nurse Kat Izzo didn’t initially connect in the early stages of season nine of “Bachelor in Paradise”, they decided to take a leap of faith and explore their feelings. During a heartfelt moment, John proposed with an Ascher cut Neil Lane diamond, expressing his admiration for Kat, stating, “I’m choosing to follow my heart today. You are amazing, you are everything I’ve been searching for.”
However, shortly after the season finale, the couple shared the news that their paths were diverging due to conflicting career aspirations. In a joint Instagram post, they expressed their gratitude for the love and support they received from family, friends, and “Bachelor Nation”, stating, “Though our paths are taking different directions, we are thankful for this journey and the love and support we’ve received.
State: Separated
Despite her apprehensions regarding a proposal from Paradise, elegantly attired Eliza Isichei (one of Clayton Echard’s past relationships) graciously accepted Aaron Bryant’s oceanfront proposal. Charmingly moved by the software salesman’s initiative to consult with her mother for her approval, she exclaimed, “I knew I was not in control of what would slip out from my lips.”
The finale’s conclusion acknowledged that Eliza and her ex, Charity (marketing manager), had encountered some difficulties post their trip to Mexico. A few days later, they publicly announced their official split.
“Complicated feelings watching it all unfold,” he penned on Instagram in December 2023. “We’re navigating our amicable parting with nothing but positivity and mutual respect for each other.
Status: Split
Initially, postpartum nurse Kylee Russell found it disappointing that her boyfriend Aven Jones refused to propose – an action he had reportedly been planning while courting Bachelorette Rachel Recchia. However, she eventually agreed to Aven’s proposal on Paradise, stating, “Let’s get out of here and make it work.”
This decision meant that her chosen engagement dress remained unopened. Kylee explained, “I just had to go with what felt right for me. Love is about taking risks.”
Two days after their finale aired in December 2023, she revealed on Instagram Stories that their relationship had ended due to multiple instances of infidelity. Aven later apologized to Kylee via an Instagram post, admitting, “I made grave errors in the relationship and caused harm to someone I cared about deeply.
Charity Lawson playfully shared with TopMob News, “I’m thrilled about how this season has unfolded!” However, her August 2023 finale was far from adequately described by that statement. Integrative medicine specialist Dotun Olubeko, in a romantic gesture, got down on one knee and declared their love as “flawless,” posing the question to the child and family therapist, “Will you agree to transform this fairy tale into a real-life romance?”
Although their future happily ever after is still to come—the couple mentioned they’re contemplating a 2025 or 2026 wedding—first, Charity will grace the dance floor on ‘Dancing With the Stars.’ Dotun excitedly told Charity during ‘The Bachelorette: After the Final Rose,’ “Alright, sweetheart, I know you love to joke around, dance, and have a good time. We’ve talked about this—about how fantastic this opportunity would be. And I am ecstatic to be the one to tell you that you’re going to be on ‘Dancing With the Stars’! Sweetheart, let’s do this!
Status: Engaged
Zach will have his fairytale conclusion. Despite some bumps along the way during the Fantasy Suite, Zach Shallcross concluded season 27 in March 2023 on one knee. “I am so in love with you,” he confessed to travel nurse Kaity Biggar. “You are my world. The love I feel for you is something I could have never imagined.”
In July 2023, the pair living in Texas took a significant stride in their journey, as Kaity announced on Instagram, “Now officially roommates.” They’re currently arranging their October 2025 wedding vows.
The current status is: Split
Danielle Maltby and Michael Allio, who appeared on season seven of BIP without Neil Lane diamonds, seemed destined to be the ideal couple from Bachelor Nation due to their shared history and circumstances. However, a year after Danielle moved from Nashville to Ohio to be with Michael, they announced their separation. Michael explained their breakup on an episode of Jason Tartick’s Trading Secrets podcast in September 2023. He stated that both parties had invested a lot into the relationship, and it was heartbreaking when it didn’t work out. When relationships don’t succeed, and you realize that love is present but compatibility is lacking, you grieve not only for the loss of that person and friend in your life, but also for the future you had imagined together.
Brandon Jones declared his affection for Serene Russell during their appearance on season seven of Paradise, expressing that he would love her until time’s end and forevermore. However, their story took an unexpected turn. Five months following the broadcast of their engagement, they announced their separation in a joint statement on Instagram in May 2023. “Our relationship has faced significant challenges in the public eye,” they wrote. “We have endeavored to work on our bond privately, but it’s been excruciatingly difficult. We are experiencing immense sadness and can only request that there be no hostility.
Status: The relationship between pilot Rachel and general contractor Tino Franco encountered a halt due to an incident where he kissed another woman during their 2022 season broadcast. In his interview on “The Viall Files,” he acknowledged, “I have absolutely no defense for my actions. It was wrong, unfair to Rachel, and I regret it deeply every day. It’s something I’m ashamed of and would gladly change if given the chance.
In summary: Susie Evans and Clayton Echard, who were together after their reality TV reunion but later split six months later, claim that their separation was for the better. Despite frequent happy moments, Susie admitted in her November 2022 blog post on “Susie Was Like” that she had lost her sparkle and wasn’t thriving. She felt out of alignment with the best version of herself during their relationship.
After dating Justin Glaze, a contestant from Bachelor Nation, Susie later disclosed that they had parted ways as well, with the news becoming public knowledge in August 2024.
In a nutshell: Michelle, an elementary school teacher from Minnesota, received a Neil Lane sparkler and a $200,000 check for her future home from Texas-based executive Nayte Olukoya during ‘The Bachelorette’ season. However, their relationship didn’t have a solid base, and they announced their breakup six months after the finale aired in December 2021.
In more casual language: Michelle got engaged to a guy named Nayte from The Bachelor, but they broke up a few months later because they just weren’t compatible. Now, she’s with Jack Leius and they got engaged the following year. On ‘The Viall Files’, Nayte admitted that not having an in-person breakup was kind of a jerk move.
The pair from BIP season seven, Maurissa Gunn and Riley Christian, managed to captivate viewers with their vision of peaceful Sundays ahead. However, despite the strong connection they shared, they were only able to spend a small number of weekends together. In a joint statement issued in January 2022, their patient coordinator Maurissa (who was involved with Peter Weber) and attorney Riley (one of Tayshia Adams’ suitors) announced that they had decided to part ways. They never anticipated this situation, but they have reached a point where they both need to focus on personal growth.
Status: Split
The initial same-sex couple from Bachelor Nation got engaged during season six of “Bachelor in Paradise,” but they revealed their separation, which occurred in 2019, on Halloween.
In their shared statement on Instagram, they expressed that love and concern for each other have consistently been central to their relationship. Their primary focus has always been making decisions that benefit them. With hearts heavy with mutual love, they’ve determined that taking a break from their relationship is what’s best for both of them. They aim for what is ultimately beneficial in the long term, and at this moment, that means growing separately as individuals.
Current Status: Engaged
Despite parting ways during the seventh season of Bachelor in Paradise, Noah Erb and Abigail Heringer found that they could see an eternity in each other’s eyes. They initially settled in San Diego but have recently purchased a home in Tulsa, his hometown.
On Instagram in July 2023, Abigail announced her new home purchase by writing, “Getting ready to enter our Chip and Joanna Gaines era because your girl just bought her very first house!!!” She was excited about starting a new chapter and creating memories in their new home. A few wedding plans are on the horizon. Before moving, Noah proposed at a beachfront San Diego home in August 2023.
Serena Pitt and Joe Amabile, both reality TV stars, decided to tie the knot earlier than their planned September 2023 wedding at City Hall in New York City, a year after they left Bachelor in Paradise engaged. They are already married, as evidenced by a video shared by Serena on October 2022, with her announcing “JUST MARRIED !!” She also hosts the Bachelor Happy Hour podcast with her husband now. They still plan to have a wedding in September, but who wouldn’t want to get married twice?
Kenny Braasch, a well-known boy band manager, declared his deep affection for Mari Pepin as he placed a Neil Lane diamond ring on her finger during the 2021 finale of Paradise. “Mari,” he said, “I am absolutely smitten by you.” He continued, “I can barely imagine my life without you.” Following their elimination by Tayshia Adams in week five, Mari moved to Kenny’s hometown of Chicago and started planning their lifetime together. Before their oceanfront wedding in Puerto Rico in November 2023, they made their love eternal, getting matching tattoos during a trip to the Bahamas in May 2023.
Status: Married
Previously on Bachelor in Paradise season seven in 2021, Becca (formerly of The Bachelorette) and Thomas Jacobs (a suitor from Katie Thurston’s season) started dating, ended their relationship during the show, but reconciled after filming. In May 2022, they revealed their engagement, with Becca proposing. Speaking to TopMob News, she expressed hope that others would feel empowered to challenge norms. True to her words, Thomas reciprocated the sentiment in October. Their son, Benson, was born in September 2023. Becca shared on Instagram, “Words can’t express the love and awe we have for this little boy.” Just weeks after welcoming Benson, they tied the knot in an impromptu ceremony on October 13th.
Status: Split
In the season finale of “The Bachelorette” in 2021, Katie got engaged to Blake Moynes. They expressed their love for each other on their overnight date, which included a paintball adventure, a cowboy bath, and a chat beneath the night sky.
Kneeling down, Blake expressed to Katie, “You are worthy of everything the world has to offer, and I’m thrilled to assist you and stand by your side each and every day from now on.
Three months following the broadcast of their proposal, the couple revealed their separation. In synchronized statements, they expressed, “We are incredibly thankful for the precious moments we experienced together and the incredible journey that unfolded over this past year. However, we’ve come to understand that we aren’t suited as lifelong companions, and it is the kindest decision for us both to proceed separately.”
Now, she is betrothed to comedian Jeff Arcuri.
Current Status: Separated
Since Matt and graphic designer Rachael Kirkconnell parted ways during his 2021 season (following a brief separation and subsequent reconciliation), they have been plagued by rumors of breakups.
In an exclusive interview with TopMob News at a Baskin-Robbins event on July 18, Matt commented, “Everyone should take a break from social media. Our lives are so tied to our phones that when anyone takes a break from being online 24/7, people think the world is ending.”
Despite this, Matt emphasized that marriage remains their ultimate goal.
“I believe the good thing about our relationship is we move at our own pace,” said the author of First Impressions: Off Screen Conversations With a Bachelor on Race, Family, and Forgiveness in an interview with TopMob News in May 2022. “And you’ve seen with other couples—they rush into engagement and they’re no longer together. So, I think we have a successful formula and we’ll make it work.”
However, less than three years later, Matt confirmed their separation.
“Dear Father God, give Rachael and me the strength to heal our broken hearts,” the reality star wrote on Instagram on January 16, 2025, alongside a throwback photo of them from The Bachelor. “Give us peace about this decision to end our relationship that transcends worldly understanding. Shower our friends and family with kindness and love to comfort us. And remind us that our joy comes from you, Lord.”
Status: Split
Following her replacement for Clare Crawley in the 2020 edition of ‘The Bachelorette’, Tayshia found herself smitten with Zac Clark. Despite exiting the show as an engaged couple, Tayshia later shared that their relationship wasn’t without its challenges.
In a new relationship, it can be challenging to leave for a few weeks, right? This is my genuine and truthful perspective, she shared on the The Ben and Ashley I. Almost Famous podcast in August 2021.
After that incident, it seemed as though we needed to recall the reasons for our relationship. And I believe that such a reflection is completely natural. However, in November 2021, TopMob News reported they had parted ways.
Status: Split
During season 16 of “The Bachelorette”, Clare became deeply smitten with Dale Moss. By the fourth episode, they were even engaged. However, their relationship didn’t remain blissful for long. After Clare was replaced by Tayshia, Dale announced on social media that his love story with the hairdresser had ended weeks prior to his announcement.
Approximately a month later, whispers of reconciliation swirled around them when they were seen together. Jump ahead to July 2021: following numerous meetings, Clare and Dale had fully rekindled their relationship—with a ring on her finger included. However, in September, they decided to part ways once more. Now, Clare is blissfully wed to Ryan Dawkins and anticipating the arrival of their first child together.
Status: Split
Following a short-lived engagement with Hannah Ann Sluss and later separation from Madison Prewett, fans had high hopes for Peter’s third try at love. Unfortunately, his relationship with Kelley Flanagan, who was popular on ‘The Bachelor’ season 24, did not work out as planned. The pilot announced on New Year’s Eve 2020 that their nine-month romance had come to an end.
Pete wrote on Instagram, “Although our time together was marked by many cherished moments, unfortunately, our bond didn’t last. Nevertheless, Kelley will forever hold a unique place in my heart.
In 2022, the couple made another attempt at flying again, but they disclosed in May of this year that their relationship had come to an end.
Status: Split
After the intense conclusion of 2020, the duo publicly declared on Instagram that they would not be continuing their romantic journey. “Madi and I have both decided to stop nurturing our relationship further,” Peter penned down. “Trust me, this wasn’t an easy decision for either of us, but after numerous heartfelt discussions, we agreed that it was the most reasonable choice for us both. The affection and regard I hold for Madi will persist.
In her declaration, Madi mentioned, “I’ll forever cherish and honor him. I’m firmly believing that our lives were destined to intersect, making us both the richer for it.
Status: Split
During season 24 of “The Bachelor,” Peter and Hannah Ann were in a brief engagement. Regrettably, by the second part of the finale, it became clear that they were facing issues just a month into their exclusive relationship. More specifically, Hannah Ann was taken aback when she learned about Peter’s ongoing feelings for Madison, which had not yet fully resolved.
She said, “All along, I merely sought someone who would offer their complete affection as I do mine. And yet, you ended my first engagement.” She conveyed this sentiment before returning the ring. “You took that from me. Why? Because I confided in you, and you’ve always asked me to be patient with you, have faith in you.
Current Status: Married
After their adventurous #vanlife days, Dean Unglert (one of Bachelorette Rachel Lindsay’s finalists) and Caelynn Miller-Keyes, who had a romantic connection with Colton Underwood, parted ways during season six of Paradise in 2019. However, they have been inseparable since then.
In 2022, they got engaged and tied the knot at a camp-themed wedding in the Colorado mountains on September 23. Caelynn shared her excitement with TopMob News before the ceremony, saying, “I just love him so much. I’m just so excited to be marrying someone who’s such a good person, who makes me laugh every single day even if I’m upset. I think our life together is going to be really fun.
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